Marital Misery: what phase are you in? HOPE DISILLUSION MISERY LAWYER or AFFAIR Don’t let another year of marital discontent go by. Calculate Your Marital Misery Score! First Name Email 1. I feel understood and supported Mostly yes No 2. I feel judged and criticized Mostly yes No 3. I keep my thoughts and feelings to myself Mostly yes No 4. Our contributions feel balanced Mostly yes No 5. We handle disagreements well Mostly yes No 6. I look forward to sex Mostly yes It's complicated I'd rather not 7. Our sexual frequency is about right Yes No 8. I often feel resentful in bed Yes No 9. I often escape online to avoid partner or relationship issues Yes Sometimes No 10. I love my partner, but I'm not in love any more Unfortunately true I'm still in love 11. I look forward to spending time together with my partner Mostly yes It can be hard No 12. My partner checks in with me in ways that matter Yes No 13. I feel appreciated Mostly yes No 14. I look forward to growing old together Mostly yes No 15. Marital stress often seeps into how I show up for other parts of life Yes No 16. Have you tried therapy? Yes No 17. How long have you been married? 0-8 years 9-15 years 16+ years 18. What is your gender? Male Female Other 19. Your age? < 30 31-40 41-50 51+ 20. What is your biggest relationship issue? Time is Up! Time's up Fix the Discontent Learn How!